Do not worry if you have problems! This is easy to say until you are in the midst of a big one. However, the only people I am aware of who do not have troubles are gathered in little neighborhoods. Most communities have at least one. We call them cemeteries.
If you are breathing, you have difficulties. It is the way of life. Moreover, believe it or not, most of your problems may actually be good for you! Let me explain.
Maybe you have seen the Great Barrier Reef, stretching some 1,800 miles from New Guinea to Australia. Tour guides regularly take visitors to view the reef. On one tour, the guide was asked an interesting question. "I notice that the lagoon side of the reef looks pale and lifeless, while the ocean side is vibrant and colorful," a traveler observed. "Why is this?"
The guide gave an interesting answer: "The coral around the lagoon side is in still water, with no challenge for its survival. It dies early. The coral on the ocean side is constantly being tested by wind, waves, and storms – surges of power. It has to fight for survival every day of its life. As it is challenged and tested, it changes and adapts. It grows healthy. It grows strong. And it reproduces." Then he added this telling note: "That’s the way it is with every living organism."
That is how it is with people. Challenged and tested, we come alive! Like coral pounded by the sea, we grow. Physical demands can cause us to grow stronger. Mental and emotional stress can produce tough-mindedness and resiliency. Spiritual testing can produce strength of character and faithfulness.
You have problems? No problem! Just tell yourself, "There I grow again!"
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Rachel Lavern is a Professional Certified Results Coach. Her clients change professions, double their income and learn how they can uncover four hidden blocks to finding their passion in 12 months or less. Subscribe to her free eNewsletter on the right and receive a complimentary personal development eBook.
